INTRODUCTION

In general, manners and etiquette refer to the accepted norms of social behavior in a given culture or environment. This includes aspects such as respect for others, courtesy, punctuality and the ability to behave in social situations.

Studying other cultures helps us to understand different perspectives on the world we live in. It also helps to eliminate negative stereotypes and personal prejudices against different groups.

These are just some general guidelines from 4 countries around the world, it is always useful to observe and follow the example of other people in different situations and places.

• England
• Angola
  
• China
  
• Brazil
  

BRAZIL

Officially known as the Federative Republic of Brazil, it is a sovereign country in South America covering the eastern half of the continent and some adjacent archipelagos. It is known for its cultural diversity, rich history and pioneering role in the international protection of refugees.

Brazil has a rich and diverse culture, and its manners and etiquette may vary according to region and social context. However, here are some general points about manners and etiquette in Brazil:

• GREETINGS:

-Brazilians are very open people and physical contact is very common. To say hello or goodbye, they often resort to the "abraço", a more or less strong hug depending on the degree of trust. So don't be surprised to receive a warm embrace. 

-Brazilians are known for being friendly and cordial. The common greeting is a handshake with eye contact and a smile. In more informal settings, it is common to give a hug or even two kisses on the cheek.

• TITTLES AND FORMALITY:

-It is important to use appropriate titles when addressing someone, especially in formal settings. For example, "Mr." (Senhor) or "Mrs." (Senhora) followed by the last name is a respectful way to address someone. In professional settings, it is common to use relevant academic and professional titles.

-If you are invited to a private home, the protocol is the same as in France, it is normal not topresent yourself empty-handed, but with flowers, wine or something typical of our country.

• CLOTHING:

-Dress may vary according to region and occasion. In professional settings, people are expected to dress formally and conservatively. However, in informal situations, such as social events or family gatherings, dress may be more relaxed.

• PUNCTUALITY:

-Punctuality is valued in different contexts. In formal situations, such as in the workplace or at professional events, it is important to be on time as a sign of respect and consideration for others. However, in social settings and informal meetings, punctuality can be more flexible and it is common for people to arrive a few minutes late. Brazilian culture is known for its relaxed approach to punctuality in certain contexts, but it is essential to adapt to the norms of each specific situation.

-Being on time for business and social engagements is considered courteous. However, at more informal events, such as gatherings with friends or family, punctuality may be more flexible.

• RESPECT FOR DIVERSITY

-In Brazil, religion plays a significant role in people's lives. The majority of the population follows Christianity, with a large presence of Catholics and also Protestants. In addition, there is a diversity of religious beliefs, including spiritism and Afro-Brazilian religions. The influence of religion on Brazilian culture and traditions is remarkable.

-Brazil is a multicultural country with great ethnic and religious diversity. It is important to be respectful and show interest in the different cultures and traditions present in the country.

• TABLE MANNERS:

-Etiquette at mealtimes varies depending on the context. In formal situations, it is important to wait for the host to indicate where to sit and wait until everyone is served before beginning to eat. It is common for meals to be an opportunity to socialize and enjoy each other's company. In informal gatherings, punctuality can be more flexible and it is common for people to arrive a few minutes late. It is essential to adapt to the rules of each specific situation.

-In Brazilian culture, food and socializing are often closely related. Some rules of table etiquette include waiting until everyone is served before beginning to eat, and it is polite to try a little of everything that is served.

• BODY GESTURES:

-Gestures and facial expressions are important in Brazilian communication. It is common to make gestures during a conversation to emphasize points or express emotions. However, it is important to be aware that some gestures may have different meanings in different cultures.

In short, Brazilian etiquette and manners are influenced by the warmth and friendliness of its people, as well as its cultural diversity. Showing respect, courtesy and consideration for others are fundamental aspects of Brazilian etiquette.

 

CHINA

 

China is a country located in Asia, known for its rich history, culture and traditions. It is the most populous country in the world and is geographically and ethnically diverse. It is also known for its cuisine, art, architecture and technological advances.

Etiquette and manners in China are an integral part of its culture, deeply rooted in the country's history and traditions. Here are some important aspects:

• GREETINGS:

-The most common greeting is bow (bowing the head) along with a "Nǐ hǎo" (你好), meaning "Hello". In more formal situations, it is common to use titles such as "Xiansheng" (先生) for gentlemen and "Nǚshì" (女士) for ladies, followed by the surname.

• CLOTHING:

-In formal situations, people are expected to dress conservatively and elegantly. Dark, neutral colors are more appropriate. Avoid wearing flashy or revealing clothing.

• PERSONAL SPACE:

Compared to some Western cultures, the concept of personal space may be different in China. It is common for people to be closer together basically during conversations and in crowded places.

• TABLE MANNERS

-During meals, it is important to wait for the host to start the meal before beginning to eat. It is polite to serve others before serving oneself, and chopsticks should always be used correctly. It is also considered polite to leave some food on the plate at the end of the meal.
-At mealtime, the most important seat is the one facing the entrance, so you should not sit there without being offered the opportunity. Generally, this place is reserved for those with higher age, social status or work.

• PUNCTUALITY

-In China, punctuality is a very important value. Being late is considered disrespectful to others and can affect personal and professional relationships. It is essential to be on time for meetings and events, as punctuality is perceived as a sign of respect and consideration for others. Chinese culture values punctuality as a sign of responsibility and commitment.

-Punctuality is a sign of respect. Being late for a meeting is considered a lack of courtesy, so it is important to be on time.

• RELIGION:

-In China, religion plays an important role in people's daily lives. Although atheism is predominant, there is also a diversity of religious beliefs including Buddhism, Taoism, Islam, and Christianity. The Chinese government recognizes five official religions: Buddhism, Taoism, Islam, Protestantism and Catholicism. However, state control over religious practice is strict and religious organizations must register and operate within the limits set by the government.

Following these basic rules of etiquette and manners can help you have smoother and more respectful interactions while interacting with people in China.

ANGOLA

 

Angola is a country located on the southwest coast of Africa. Its capital is Luanda and its official language is Portuguese due to its colonial history. Angola is known for its rich cultural diversity, beautiful beaches and stunning wildlife.

In Angola, manners and etiquette are very important in social interaction. Abiding by manners and etiquette is important because it reflects respect for others and shows consideration for the country's culture and traditions. Following the rules of politeness helps maintain harmony in social interactions and avoid misunderstandings. It also shows a genuine interest in understanding and respecting the Angolan way of life. It is fundamental to building positive and lasting relationships in any society.

• GREETINGS:

-Greeting is important in Angolan culture. It is customary to shake hands with a firm handshake and may include a light hug or tap on the shoulder between close friends and family members. It is common to ask about health and family during greetings.

-It is common to greet people with a handshake and make eye contact during conversation.

• RESPECT FOR AGE AND AUTHORITY:

-Young people are expected to show respect for elders and authority figures. It is common to address elders with titles such as "Tio" (uncle) or "Tia" (aunt) followed by name.
-It is also considered polite to show respect to elders and people in positions of authority.

• RESPECT FOR DIVERSITY:

-In addition, it is important to avoid discussing sensitive topics such as politics or religion, as this can lead to conflict. Angolan society values harmony and mutual respect, so it is better to focus on more neutral and positive topics when interacting with people.

• TABLE MANNERS:

-During meals, it is considered polite to wait for the host to start the meal before eating. It is common to eat with the hands in some cases, especially at traditional meals, but in more formal situations cutlery is used.
-In Angola, dining etiquette is an important aspect of the culture. Food is a central part of social life in Angola, and sharing a meal is a way of bonding and building relationships with others. Some common customs include washing hands before eating, and it is considered polite to offer food to others before serving oneself. In addition, it is customary to eat with the right hand, as the left hand is considered impure.

• PUNCTUALITY:

-Punctuality is not considered as strict as in other places. It is common for meetings and events to start with some delay, so it is not unusual to be a few minutes late. However, it is important to show respect for the time of others and try to be punctual in formal or business situations.

• POLITE GESTURES:

 It is important to be courteous and considerate in all social interactions. Avoid interrupting others while they are speaking and show genuine interest in what they have to say.

ENGLAND

In order to be clear about the manners and etiquette shared by this country, we must first know the basics about it.

England is the largest of the four parts of the country called the United Kingdom which is located on the European continent. London is the capital of England and the United Kingdom. There are important things you should know, and that is that, as in other places in the world, customs and manners are different from those we Latin Americans have, and go beyond the language. Manners in England are usually quite formal.

Manners and etiquette in England are important and reflect British tradition and courtesy. Here are some key aspects:

• GREETINGS:

-The most common greeting is a handshake with eye contact and a smile. In more formal situations, such as at work or social events, it is polite to use titles such as "Mr." or "Mrs." followed by the last name.

-Smiling is the best way to greet a person, greet them, introduce them, have a conversation, etc., with a good smile on your face. It is also considered polite to say "please" and "thank you" in everyday situations.

 

• RESPECT FOR PRIVACY:

-British people value their privacy highly. Avoid asking personal or intrusive questions, especially when meeting someone for the first time.

-Respecting the privacy and personal space of others is also highly valued, so speaking softly is a sign of politeness.

• CLOTHING:

- In general, dress in England is conservative and elegant. In formal settings, such as at work or social events, people are expected to dress in suits or appropriate attire. In more informal situations, such as outings with friends, dress may be more relaxed.

-Dress well because making a good first impression is important. Our wardrobe is our calling card before we say a single word. You can change a first impression, but it is not easy. 

• PUNCTUALITY:

-In England, punctuality is a very important value. The British are known for being extremely punctual, as they consider that being late can be offensive to the host. This is because they place great importance on responsibility and respect for the time of others. It is essential to comply with established schedules to show consideration and courtesy towards others.  

• MANNERS TABLE:

-At the table, the British are known for their etiquette. It is important to wait until everyone is served before starting to eat, and to keep your elbows off the table. The fork should be held in the left hand and the knife in the right while cutting the food.

-Etiquette at mealtimes is important. It is common to wait until everyone is served before beginning to eat, and it is considered polite to keep elbows off the table. It is also polite to wait for the host to indicate that you may begin eating. 

• RELIGION:

-The religious sphere is a diverse and fascinating subject. The predominant religion in England is Christianity, with the Church of England (Anglican) as the main denomination. However, there is also a growing religious diversity that includes Muslim, Hindu, Sikh, Jewish and other religious communities. Religious freedom is a fundamental principle in England, which means that people have the right to practice the religion of their choice.

These are some of the main aspects of etiquette and manners in England. Following these basic rules will help you integrate better into British society and have smoother and more respectful interactions with others.

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